“Father, make of me a crisis man. Bring those I contact to decision. Let me not be a milepost on a single road;
make me a fork
, that men must turn one way or another on facing Christ in me.” - Jim Elliot

Thursday, June 11, 2009

those seeds should have known that they needed a pole...

Been out in the garden. We're growing pole beans this year. Never done it before. Now that the plant starts are maturing... they are sending out their tentacles to hook on to something... whatever they can find... even themselves. What they really need are poles... to grasp on to, so that the beans are able to grow off the ground. That's where I come in... I'm their trainer.

Each morning as I walk about my garden, I stop by and visit the pole beans. If I find a new growth of tentacle, I gently lead it over to the pole... sometimes gently wrapping it around the pole. Next time I visit, it normally has gotten the idea... and it does the wrapping itself. And then I won't even need to help it... but for now I do... and I visit daily... and I train. Gently. Enjoying their growth... and soon I won't be as necessary... until they bear their fruit... and then I get to share in their harvest.

No one faults the beans for needing a little extra help. Actually, the seeds came in a package with directions that I would need to provide for their growth if I expected them to produce as shown in their picture on the front of the package. I don't mind helping them. I actually enjoy it.

So when the plant is starting to send out its shoots, I don't think to myself... those seeds should have known that they needed a pole... why didn't they plant themselves by a pole? They were made to be dependent. Now, I can't make the seed grow into the plant... it does it by itself... God has created it that way. But coming alongside... offering what I can... a pole, water... and then it is ready to do the rest.

And so, we are encouraged... or even more so... given the charge... of training the "younger" women. There is a world out there that thinks that loving a husband or children, being self-controlled, pure, busy at home, kind, and subject to a husband... well, it should just come naturally. Innate. Or perhaps we think... that was someone else's job... their mother's job. She was to train up the daughters. Well, sometimes... things just don't work out that way...

Is there a young tender flower near you? Perhaps you didn't plant her, but you could give a little guidance? A gentle nudging? Just until she grasps hold? Maybe you need to direct her to the Word of God? Fellowship with other women? Be a listening ear?

For me... this is a compulsion. I am compelled to do so... because, I know what it is like to not have a gentle gardener direct me towards the right direction. By the grace of God, I happened upon it... after years of wrapping the tentacles around myself... and often wonder what it would have been like if only someone would have taken the time to...

...train the younger women

love their husbands
and children,
to be
to be
busy at home,
to be
and to be
subject to their husbands,
so that no one will malign the word of God.

Titus 2:4-5 NIV


Patti said...

Beautifully written. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. I am encouraged!!!

a portland granny said...

What a wonderful lesson you made for us today with your beans and your well-chosen words! It was beautifully presented!

Thank you.

gideonmommasita said...

Lovely....I did the same last summer and loved doing the tending...nothing this summer...nothing, thank you for connecting the dots.

Tammy said...

This was a wonderful post and words for the heart. Thank you for sharing.

Anonymous said...

Hi Sheri,
What a great post, very inspiring.

elaine @ peace for the journey said...

Funny, I used to be that "younger woman." I suppose as it pertains to my "ancients" I am that younger woman they are gently (and sometimes not so much...) redirecting to the pole. As I've hit middle-age, I'm finding a new joy in helping younger woman in their journey toward Jesus. 43 breathes with some life experiences and wisdom I didn't have when I was 20.

Great analogy, Sheri. Hope you have a wonderful, rested weekend.

PS: And if you ever get tired of working in your own yard, I've got some ground that needs a little tlc.