by letting anger control you.
Think about it overnight
and remain silent.
Psalm 4:4 NLT
I've been angry this week. Frustrated. Mad.
Unable to put pen to paper or fingertips to keyboard for fear that I might sin... I have withheld my words.
Always wanting to be vulnerable and integrous here. But never wanting to spread my feelings like so many Utz potato chips for everyone to partake. (Because you can't stop with just one.)
As I was considering how to spur myself back to writing... I remembered this post... and it directed me back to the One who hears my heart.
originally aired Monday, July 14th, 2008
Anyone Can Become Angry -
That is Easy
but to be angry with the right person
and for the right purpose and
that is not within everyone's power
and that is not easy.” - Aristotle
I had the opportunity to visit the church of a family member this weekend. The pastor's sermon was on anger. I thought, "Great! I can take a little mind break... I think I have a handle on this..." Boy! Was I wrong!
I was amazed at the amount of verses in the Bible that deal with anger. I've heard it said that if something is repeated over and over again in the Bible... it must be for great cause.
What impacted me the most is when the pastor said that often the emotion of anger is caused by feelings of injustice. When we think, "That's Not Right!" When we have a blocked desire or goal... when we feel slighted, cheated or attacked. When our rights are violated... but catch this one... when our perceived rights are violated. What? Back up the train! Repeat that... "when our perceived rights are violated."
Okay, OUCH! This hits home for me. Think about it... what really are our "rights"? what really are our "perceived rights"? Do I really have the right to expect everyone to treat me fairly? or to treat my son with special attention? or to have peace and quiet in my backyard? or for the gas prices to be lower than $4.50 a gallon? or for my rental car to smell new (or at least not like smoke)? Or to get free internet access at a coffee shop... that does work? Or to get that super close parking spot?
Then the pastor came in with the next punch... We tend to get angry when someone violates a personal right that we have NOT YIELDED to God. (Wait a minute! I thought I was on vacation here!!!) Hmmm....
So, maybe I'm the only one dealing with this issue... but if you want to know how the pastor suggested we deal with our anger over what we may feel are our personal/perceived rights...
Complain if you must,
but don't lash out.
Keep your mouth shut,
and let your heart do the talking.
Build your case before God
and wait for his verdict.
Psalm 4:4-5 MSG