
...but he who sows righteousness
reaps a sure reward.
Proverbs 11:18b NIV
I'm suffering the consequences.
Christopher was disrespectful today and I am paying the price. So is he. So is Anthony. We were supposed to do something fun together as a family, but the line had to be drawn. Somewhere.
And I hate it. I hate administering discipline. Christopher has been trying to emotionally manipulate me to get me to change my mind. It almost worked. Almost.
He's a great kid. The offense to some would seem minor. But that's Christopher. Delayed obedience, skirting the issue, quietly pushing the envelope. Nothing outright. And so we slide into this parental passivity.
But Anthony said, "I don't want to have a son who doesn't listen to his father."
As Christopher learns to respect his earthly father. To listen. To be obedient. He is being prepared for the greater good. Respecting his heavenly Father. Listening to his heavenly Father. Obeying his heavenly Father.
And although I hate administering discipline... I hate to think of the consequences if I don't...
And you have forgotten that
word of encouragement
that addresses you as sons:
"My son, do not make light
of the Lord's discipline,
and do not lose heart
when he rebukes you,
because the Lord disciplines
those he loves,
and he punishes
everyone he accepts as a son."
Endure hardship as discipline;
God is treating you as sons.
For what son is not disciplined
by his father?
If you are not disciplined
(and everyone undergoes discipline),
then you are illegitimate children
and not true sons.
Moreover, we have all had human fathers
who disciplined us and
we respected them for it.
How much more should we
submit to the Father
of our spirits and live!
Our fathers disciplined us
for a little while
as they thought best;
but God disciplines us for our good,
that we may share in his holiness.
No discipline seems pleasant
at the time, but painful.
Later on, however,
it produces a harvest
of righteousness and peace
for those who have been trained by it.
Hebrews 12:5-11 NIV